Remember back at the beginning of the year - you know - January! Did you join the rest of the American culture and set a few resolutions or goals? It seemed like every blog I looked at the first few weeks of January had goals or resolutions posted.
I clearly remember deciding at the time I was not going to make resolutions. I was going to set goals - something I would work toward.
One of the goals I set was to be more deliberate in what I read on a regular basis. First, I determined I was going to Read the Bible in 90 Days. Reality has set into my lofty goals and I've realized I'm not going to finish reading the whole Bible in 90 days. However, I AM GOING TO FINISH THE WHOLE BIBLE! I am quite determined not to give up. I will not take the lazy way out. I will do the hard (for me) thing and read the whole Bible cover to cover. You can check on my ongoing progress in my sidebar or by clicking here.
Another goal was also to read a fiction book each month as well as several non-fiction books once I'm finished reading the Bible. I love climbing in bed and curling up with a good fiction book. Sometimes I only read a few pages, sometimes I read several chapters. Either way, I always fall asleep easier having taken my brain to another place and time for a few minutes.
The Lumby Series by Gail Fraser
Back in early February I finished reading The Promise of Lumby by Gail Fraser, but I never posted a review. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this series. I think I started reading it in 2008. I was looking for a good series of books, akin to the Mitford series by Jan Karon. I love to read book series because, once I get to know a character I like living with them for a while. I also much prefer series whose characters live morally - not necessarily a moral to the story. I'm not fond of books where the characters behave amorally on a consistent basis. The Promise of Lumby is the fourth installment of the series and I enjoyed it just as much as the first.
Lumby is a quaint little town set in the Northwest U.S. That in itself piqued my interest, as the farthest west I've ever been is Wyoming. It's also a town filled with an array of eclectic good-hearted, but sometimes confused characters. Each book in the series reveals a problem facing the town and its residents, introduces a newbie to the town, and sparks a romance between two characters. It's fun. It's relaxing. It's light romance. It is not Pride and Prejudice. If you're looking for a serious romance novel, this probably isn't your style.
However, if you're looking for a good series with good clean fun and funny characters who will let you escape into another place for a while, this is a great book and a great series to read. I thoroughly enjoyed it and am really looking forward to the next book in the series, due out in July 2010.
Prairie Tale by Melissa Gilbert
The next book I read in February was by Melissa Gilbert - you know "Half Pint" from the Little House on the Prairie TV series of the 1970s. I picked it up somewhat absent-mindedly at the library because the other books on my to-read list were all checked out at the time. This is an autobiographical book. She describes various events of her life from before she became "Laura Ingalls" through her current situation. It was an easy read and I finished it more quickly than I'd expected. Unfortunately, I can't recommend it.
If you were a huge Melissa Gilbert fan and you're dying to know what her life was like during and after the show, sure pick it up and read it. But don't expect it to be more than it is. Melissa Gilbert is not Laura Ingalls. Ms. Gilbert was raised with very different values than her TV character. And the choices she made throughout her life reflect those values.
Yada Yada Prayer Group Series by Neta Jackson
I'm currently reading Book 6 of 7 from this series. I'm always drawn into these books very quickly. I've only had this one a few days and I'm already nearly half finished. I'll tell you my thoughts on the series next month.
So what are you reading these days? What do you look for when choosing a good fiction book?
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Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Monday, February 8, 2010
Bookin' It in 2010: The Plan
Reading is such a big part of life. It stretches your mind. It helps relax. During stressful times it helps me sleep. So naturally, one of my goals for this year is to read. Typically, I don't set goals to read - I just read. But, this year I decided to be more deliberate and join Fishmama in Bookin' It in 2010. It's taken me a whole month to come up with my plan, and it's still unfinished - but that's the way my life is!
Here's the plan & the current progress:
Spiritual Growth:
Read the Bible cover to cover in 90 days. Finished reading Esther (Day 36)
Read the Bible every day after April 1
Read one book for spiritual growth per month (after April 1). Here's what's on my list so far:
Reading for Pleasure (1 per month):
(Most of these were strongly recommended by my sister who reads voraciously and much faster)
*books I've started previously, but never finished
Ummm. Yeah. There's no way I'll be able to read all of these in a year. I'm just not that fast a reader. I'm not even going to attempt the Spiritual Growth books until I'm finished reading the Bible in 90 Days. I simply don't have the time. But, having written down the list will help me stay focused and get further through the list than I would otherwise.
What are you reading this month? Have a good read aloud with your kids you can recommend?
Here's the plan & the current progress:
Spiritual Growth:
Read the Bible cover to cover in 90 days. Finished reading Esther (Day 36)
Read the Bible every day after April 1
Read one book for spiritual growth per month (after April 1). Here's what's on my list so far:
- Open Heart, Open Home by Karen Mains*
- Building Faith at Home by Mark A Holmen*
- My Heart's at Home by Jill Savage
- Amazing Grace by Eric Metaxas* (biography of William Wilberforce)
- Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World by Joanna Weaver
- A Long Obedience in the Same Direction by Eugene Peterson **
- Think Orange: Imagine the Impact when Church and Family Collide by Reggie Joiner
- Ordering Your Private World by Gordon McDonald (reread)
- Too Busy Not to Pray by Bill Hybels
- Faith Begins at Home by Mark A Holmen
- That's My Son: How Moms can Influence Boys to Become Men of Character by Rick Johnson
- Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Leman
- Family Feasts for $75 a Week by Mary Ostyn
- Tightwad Gazette by Amy Dacyczyn (reread)
- Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey
- The Five Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman
- Raising Real Men: Surviving, Teaching & Appreciating Boys by Hal & Melanie Young
- Prarie Tale by Melissa Gilbert (currently reading)
Reading for Pleasure (1 per month):
(Most of these were strongly recommended by my sister who reads voraciously and much faster)
- The Promise of Lumby by Gail Fraser Finished
- Summer on Blossom Street by Debbie Macomber
- Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers
- Yada Yada Prayer Group Series by Neta Jackson (I think I'm on #6 of 8)
- Sister Chicks Series by Robin Jones Gunn (I'm on #4 of 8)
- 16 Lighthouse Road & series by Debbie Macomber
- The Quilters' Apprentice & series by Jennifer Chiaverini
- Little House on the Prairie - even my boy is enjoying this one!
- ??? I need suggestions here for books to read with my kids (girl age 6, boy age 8)
*books I've started previously, but never finished
Ummm. Yeah. There's no way I'll be able to read all of these in a year. I'm just not that fast a reader. I'm not even going to attempt the Spiritual Growth books until I'm finished reading the Bible in 90 Days. I simply don't have the time. But, having written down the list will help me stay focused and get further through the list than I would otherwise.
What are you reading this month? Have a good read aloud with your kids you can recommend?
Saturday, February 28, 2009
A Matter of Wife and Death

Several weeks ago, I mentioned that I had read A Matter of Wife & Death by Ginger Kolbaba & Christy Scammell. This is the second in the series and to a great extent my response was similiar to the first book in the series, Desperate Pastors' Wives.
The series features four pastor's wives from small town Ohio. The four women get together for lunch at a Cafe several miles out of town. The friends share their own individual challenges as well as their shared challenges. Jennifer is still struggling with her inability to get pregnant. Lisa's teenage daughter is, well, being a teenage girl - an attitude problem. Mimi is overwhelmed with a colicky baby and feeling ignored. And Felicia is trying to figure out how to keep her job and stop her son, Nicholas, from biting.
Early in the book, the wives attend a regional meeting for pastor's wives. While there, Jennifer has an arguement with the "Pastor's Wife Diva" - Kitty Katt. A short time later, Kitty is found dead. Jennifer is suspected of murder. The remainder of the book deals with the consequences of Kitty's death and the difficult decisions each woman must make as well as their own situations.
The book is quite appealing and is revealed in such a way that it certainly kept me engaged. I found it difficult to put down the book and go to sleep each night. I enjoyed revisiting each character, even though I felt they were a bit stereotyped. Yes, we pastor's wives have special challenges to our lives. There are times when it is feels that the whole world is watching and judging you. There are some things which you can only discuss with your husband. And there are special challenges to raising children in this kind of situation. However, every marriage has unique challenges. Every marriage has situations you can only discuss with your husband. And, in my experience, if it feels like the whole world is judging you - it's probably just a few people and is usually mostly perception, not reality.
In particular, I got frustrated with Mimi's story line. Mimi is isolated in dealing with her colicky baby. But, that has never been my experience. When my children were born I had many offers of help and support. In every church I've been in, when a family (pastoral staff or not) has a new baby there are constant offers of meals and help with caring for the new baby. I have found this to be an area where churches are particularly empathetic and supportive. It surprised me that there was no one offering to give Mimi a bit of relief and that there were no suggestions of what might be causing the colic. I kept thinking, "Where is her support system?"
As for the other wives' situations, while I found them to be engaging, I also found myself thinking, "Oh come on. Anybody could figure this out." I knew very quickly what was causing Nicholas to bite. I also found myself frustrated with Felicia for not communicating with her husband better. This didn't ring true for me at all. Most ministerial couples give their marriage the utmost importance, and, therefore, nothing is kept secret. The story line I enjoyed the most was Lisa's. The teenage angst combined with the pressure of watching your father's work struggle at very close range -- this I felt was the most realistic of the bunch. I also really enjoyed how Lisa handled that situation -- wise parenting.
Overall, despite the flaws, a good read. I enjoyed my visit with the PWs and look forward to the next book in the series.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
What's on Your Nightstand - February
Is it really the end of February already? How can that be? I just posted about what I was reading in January a week ago. Hmm. I don't think I got a month's worth of stuff done. I've gotta do better next month.Well, last month I posted about my current struggle to find fiction reading that interested me. Well, thanks to the commentors from 5MinutesforBooks I received some great recommendations. Thanks especially to Amber & Nise' for recommending Debbie Macomber. I'm currently reading The Shop on Blossom Street and really enjoying it.
So, on to the current list. Here's what I'm reading:
Finished in January:
- The Tuesday Club Murders by Agatha Christie
- A Matter of Wife & Death by Ginger Kolbaba & Christy Scamell
(My review here.)
On my nightstand right now are:
- The Shop on Blossom Street by Debbie Macomber
- Reader's Digest - March
- The Mysteriuos Affair at Styles by Agatha Christie
- The Lumby Lines by Gail Fraser
- Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen (ahem, still untouched from last month)
- Building Faith at Home by Mark A HolmenOpen Heart, Open Home By Karen Mains
- Amazaing Grace by Eric Metaxas
Sitting beside my rocker in the living room are:
- my Bible
- The Daily Message by Eugene H. Peterson
- Experiencing God Day by Day by Henry & Richard Blackaby
- Leading Your Kids to Christ
- 100 Bible Stories; 100 Bible Songs created by Stephen Elkins
- Fancy Nancy by Jane O'Connor
- Fancy Nancy and the Posh Puppy by Jane O'Connor (my daughter has fallen in love with these books)
- Leonardo the Terrrible Monster by Mo Willems
- Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus by Mo Willems
- The Pigeon Wants a Puppy! by Mo Willems
- The Pigeon Finds a Hot Dog! by Mo Willems (can you tell we like Mo Willems?)
- Scooby Doo! in Jungle Jeopardyby Jesse McCann
- Magenta's Visit by Alice Wilder and Michael T. Smith
- Blue's Big Pajama Party by Adam Peltzman
- The Best Mouse Cookie by Laura Numeroff
- Spider-man 3: Spider-man's New Suit Adapted by N.T. Raymond
- Quest for the Tower by Michael Anthony Steele (a LEGO book)
- Mouse Mess by Linnea Riley
So, that's what I'm reading. In true UnfinishedMom fashion - most of the adult books have been started, but are unfinished at this point. What are you reading these days? What are you reading to your kids?
For more of what others have on their nightstand go here.
Friday, January 30, 2009
My Reading List
I've recently discovered that there are people out there who blog about what they read.
Wow.
There they are in black and white. Hundreds, probably thousands, of blogs about books and reading books. Lots of people blog about the books they're reading. Why this never occurred to me as a good idea, I don't know. Of course it's a good idea. People blog about everything. We blog about our children, our hobbies, our crazy in-laws and the awful smell that comes from having a dead rat in the wall. We blog about blogging, for Pete's sake. Why wouldn't we blog about what we're reading? And this way we can share our good book ideas with each other!
I've even found someone else who loves two of my favorite authors: Jan Karon & Lucy Maud Montgomery. Now that discovery inspired me.
Personally, I am primarily a fiction reader. Well, I am and I'm not. When I read just to enjoy reading, I read fiction. My father read non-fiction of a huge variety; My husband reads mostly non-fiction, but he has a few fiction series/themes that he likes to read. I read fiction. Unless I'm reading my Bible, trying to improve myself, or reading a recipe.
Recently, I've been kinda stumped on what to read because, unfortunately I'm kinda picky in the fiction that I read:
SO, on a recent trip to my wonderful local library, I picked up Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen and The Tuesday Club Murders by Agatha Christie. I know, I know, a murder mystery? Isn't that kinda dark? I've gotta be out of my mind - not exactly light stuff here. The thing is, Agatha Christie is familiar. I read a bunch of her books while I was in high school; it was the next series I read after I graduated from Nancy Drew. And I like Agatha Christie. She's not overly graphic or gory. And she uses the same characters over and over. It's like reading a series. And right now, I need books that are comfortable. So, I grabbed Agatha Christie. I've started Agatha first. She's a bit less daunting than Jane Austin. I've tried reading Sense and Sensibility at least twice before and never managed to finish it. Life interrupted. Hopefully, this time I'll finish it. I'll just keep on renewing it until I do!
On my nightstand right now are:
For more of what others have on their nightstand go here.
Wow.
There they are in black and white. Hundreds, probably thousands, of blogs about books and reading books. Lots of people blog about the books they're reading. Why this never occurred to me as a good idea, I don't know. Of course it's a good idea. People blog about everything. We blog about our children, our hobbies, our crazy in-laws and the awful smell that comes from having a dead rat in the wall. We blog about blogging, for Pete's sake. Why wouldn't we blog about what we're reading? And this way we can share our good book ideas with each other!
I've even found someone else who loves two of my favorite authors: Jan Karon & Lucy Maud Montgomery. Now that discovery inspired me.
Personally, I am primarily a fiction reader. Well, I am and I'm not. When I read just to enjoy reading, I read fiction. My father read non-fiction of a huge variety; My husband reads mostly non-fiction, but he has a few fiction series/themes that he likes to read. I read fiction. Unless I'm reading my Bible, trying to improve myself, or reading a recipe.
Recently, I've been kinda stumped on what to read because, unfortunately I'm kinda picky in the fiction that I read:
- I like well written books. If it's badly written I get bored - easily.
- I generally prefer upbeat books.
- I don't really like suspense; I'm definitely not into gore.
- I don't generally read romance novels (though there are exceptions - we'll get to that later).
- I prefer series books, where I can get to know and "live" with a character for a while.
SO, on a recent trip to my wonderful local library, I picked up Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen and The Tuesday Club Murders by Agatha Christie. I know, I know, a murder mystery? Isn't that kinda dark? I've gotta be out of my mind - not exactly light stuff here. The thing is, Agatha Christie is familiar. I read a bunch of her books while I was in high school; it was the next series I read after I graduated from Nancy Drew. And I like Agatha Christie. She's not overly graphic or gory. And she uses the same characters over and over. It's like reading a series. And right now, I need books that are comfortable. So, I grabbed Agatha Christie. I've started Agatha first. She's a bit less daunting than Jane Austin. I've tried reading Sense and Sensibility at least twice before and never managed to finish it. Life interrupted. Hopefully, this time I'll finish it. I'll just keep on renewing it until I do!
On my nightstand right now are:
- The Tuesday Club Murders by Agatha Christie
- Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen
- Building Faith at Home by Mark A Holmen
- Open Heart, Open Home By Karen Mains
- Amazaing Grace by Eric Metaxas
- my Bible
- The Daily Message by Eugene H. Peterson
- Experiencing God Day by Day by Henry & Richard Blackaby
- 100 Bible Stories; 100 Bible Songs created by Stephen Elkins
- Knuffle Bunny by Mo Willems (my daughter's favorite book)
- Kapow by George O'Connor (one of my son's favorites)
- Ker-Splash by George O' Connor (another of my son's favorites)
- The Big Green Pocketbook by Candice Ransom
- John Philip Duck by Patricia Polaccco (my all-time favorite children's author)
For more of what others have on their nightstand go here.
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