Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Carrot Raisin Salad

This was one of the first things I learned to make. It is very easy. I love carrots, but do not like mayonnaise at all. Most of the recipes I had seen were loaded with mayonnaise - yuck. Then, in my late teens I discovered Chick Fil-A's carrot raisin salad, which is very good, and doesn't have much mayonnaise. So, with a little help form my mom, we came up with this recipe.

Carrot Raisin Salad



Ingredients:
  • 3/4 Cup crushed pineapple
  • 3/4 Cup raisins
  • 1/4 Cup mayonnaise (you won't taste it - I promise!)
  • 1/4 Cup sugar
  • 1 lb. Carrots

Directions:
  1. Drain pineapple.
  2. In a medium size bowl, combine raisins, mayonnaise, sugar and drained pineapple.
  3. Refrigerate raisin/pineapple mixture while doing step #3; this allows raisins to plump.
  4. Peel and shred carrots.
  5. Combine carrots with raisin/pineapple mixture. Refrigerate until serving.

Notes:
This salad is best served cold and prepared a day ahead.


For more great recipes visit Tempt My Tummy Tuesday at Blessed with Grace.

Monday, March 30, 2009

Goals 3/30 - 4/5/09

This is my update on how I'm doing on the various weekly goals I've set.

Here's how I did on last weeks goals:
Read Phillippians 5x. (Completed 2x)
Have a Quiet Time at least 5 times. (Completed 4x)
Walk/Excercise 3x. (Hah! zilch.)
Deposit checks.
Pay bills.
Laundry - 9 loads.
Coupons - clip, sort, file.
Clean Up receipts on kitchen counter.
Go to Walgreens - do deals, use RRs.
Make 2 batches muffins (made 1 batch)Make up Oatmeal packets for son. (7 packs)
Write 6 Thank Yous. (Sigh, no this is still on the to do list)
Ship 2 packages (Shipped 1)
Swish/Swipe Bathroom 5x (Completed 3 times - not too bad!)
Mop Kitchen Floor (at least) 2x (nope, not even once)
Clean off computer desk. (NOT! - see picture below!)

Well, I knew it was an ambitious list even before I started. I had three separate appointments during the week and that took away some time I had to complete tasks at home. I don't have as many appointments this week, so hopefully I'll be a bit more productive.

This week's goals are:

Quiet Time 5x (one done this morning)
Read Phillippians 3x before Weds
Clean off computer desk (see photo - it's worse than it looks!)
Clean off back table
Clip Coupons
Sort/file Coupons
Swish/Swipe Bathroom 4x (more reasonable goal this week)
Deposit checks
Pay Bills/Update Checkbook
File paperwork
Build a 4'x4' Square Foot Garden box (w/ hubby)
Laundry (7 loads) (1 load in washer now)
Declutter/Clean Kitchen counters
Mop Kitchen floor 2x
Ship package to Oklahoma
Read with kiddos: 6x each child
Make Ahead: yogurt, chicken stock, 1 batch muffins, hot chocolate mix, hummus(?)
Blog: 1 new recipe, grocery goal, Shoppers deal, ???

Again, this is a really ambitious list. But, if I don't write it down I won't get half of it done! A few of these have already been started, and some of them are planned for completion with hubby on his day off tomororw. Check back next Monday to see how I did.

What's on your "To Do List" for the week?

Shoppers Trip (3/29) - Saved $26.99

Shoppers had a good sale this weekend. The $5/25 and $10/50 coupons that were in Thursday's Washington Post, Baltimore Sun & Carroll County Times, were ending and I knew there were some things we needed. I hadn't had a chance to get to the grocery store before Sunday, so, even though I hate going to the grocery store on Sunday, I felt I needed to take advantage of this sale while I could.

Going on Sunday wasn't the greatest of ideas - a lot of good coupon matchups were picked over and supplies were limited.

But, I still was fairly pleased with what I did find. So, here's the breakdown:


Total before Sales & Coupons: $57.71

Total after Sales & Coupons: $30.71

Coupons used:
1 $10/50 Shoppers coupon
1 Free Pantene style product with purchase of Pantene shampoo/conditioner
1 $1.00/1 Pantene Conditioner, doubled, also a sale item
2 $2.00/2 Wheat Thins,
1 $3.00 Store coupon for purchase of Wheat Thins
2 $0.75/1 Nestle Chocolate Chip, doubled
1 $1.00/3 Folgers Coffee, doubled

The skim milk should last us all week and the whole milk and small yogurt will be used to make our own yogurt this week ($2.36 for 1/2 gallon of yogurt = ~$0.22/6 ounces; cheaper than any sale I've seen). The apples and onion I'll need for various menu items this week. Pretty much everything else was just stock-up on stuff that I could get at a good price.

Friday, March 27, 2009

The Vacant Stare

We took the kids to dinner at Pizza Hut the other night. The son had been asking at least twice a week for the past month, "Can we go to Pizza Hut?" So, yesterday, there was a little extra in the food fund and hubby suggested we finally take the plunge and go. I didn't have a clear plan for dinner and there wasn't anything that just "had-to-be-cooked-tonight-or-it-will-go-bad." So we went.

We ran into some friends there that we haven't seen in a long time. The son was super-excited to see his soccer pal. So, we chatted a few minutes and then moved on to our own table and they moved on to the next thing on their schedule.

We spent a little time figuring out what everyone wanted, and then getting the kids into an activity that would keep them occupied until the food came.

And then my husband interrupted my thoughts, "What's wrong?"

I shook my head, "Nothing, why?"

"You weren't here. You were somewhere else."

"Just thinking about Dad."

There's a lot of that going on ... just thinking about Dad.

Sometimes it's flashes from the hospital. Or the second hospital. Or the third hospital. Or the hospice.

Sometimes it's memories of growing up. Or memories of being grown and sharing the memories of childhood.

Sometimes it's trying to decide, "How would Dad have responded to that?"

His birthday was yesterday.

He would have been 82.

I miss him.

How to Soften Brown Sugar

While cleaning out my father's kitchen I came across a box of brown sugar. This box of brown sugar had been in Dad's kitchen for, well, a very long time. I looked at it with skepticism. My sister looked at it with more skepticism.

"Can it be used?" I asked.

"You'd know better than I would," she said.

This stuff was hard. Rock hard. I couldn't budge it at all. I brought it home thinking, well maybe I can get it to break apart with my kitchen mallet, or maybe hubbie can work on it. If not, oh well, it's no great loss. It's not like I spent money on it.

Then just a few days later I came across this great tip in a magazine. It was a in a list of 25 great kitchen tips. I wish I could remember the magazine to give them credit. But, alas, my brain leaks information like that. And my unfinished organization means that I can't find the blasted thing, even though I'm writing this just 2 days after I read the article!

Anyway, on to the tip. How to soften brown sugar --

Put a slice of bread in the bag/container with the brown sugar. In a day or two it will be soft and usable again.

That's it.

No kidding. I tried it with that rock hard brown sugar and it worked like a dream. Within 48 hours that brown sugar was soft enough to use and I just added it right into my brown sugar container.

No more throwing out hard brown sugar for me!

This tip is being linked to Frugal Friday at LifeAsMom.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

What Does it Mean to Love God?

First, I must thank God.

Several weeks ago, I started praying for God to change who I am. I asked Him:
  • that I will love Him with all my heart, and with all my soul, and with all my mind.
  • that I will love my neighbor as myself.
  • that I will become a woman of prayer
  • that God will remove obstacles to me loving Him and praying daily/constantly
  • that I will learn to pray through Scripture
  • that I will communicate to others what God teaches me.
I am grateful and humbled. My prayer and devotional life have been more consistent and more vital in the last several weeks than they have been in years. I do believe God has removed obstacles to a daily quiet time from my life. He has certainly sent me encouragers. Some of them on-line; some of them in real life!

There is still much progress to be made. Last week was pretty miserable. I think I managed to sit down and really concentrate on God and listening to God once, maybe twice. Pitiful. I have confessed this. God has forgiven me. And, He has given me a renewed motivation to get back in the habit of spending my time with Him.

And so, I thank God. I thank Him for the renewed motivation. I thank Him for removing stumbling blocks. I thank Him for encouragement. I thank Him for being with me during those quiet times. And, I thank Him for using that time to draw me closer to Him. I am grateful and cautiosly pleased.

As the last several weeks have progressed, there is a question I've been contemplating ...

What does it mean to love God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind?

I've been contemplating that question a lot recently.

What does it look like when your love for God is total, complete, 100% of who you are? Is it different to love God with your heart than with your soul than with your mind? Why does Matthew22:34-40 include heart, soul and mind, but Mark 12:28-34 says heart, soul, mind and strength? Are these different? How so?

Heart. Hmmm. It seems to me that there are some differences. In our 2009 American culture, loving God with all your heart - that seems to be our emotions. That's an area I definitely have problems in. I'm not overwhelmed with loving emotions for God. Sometimes I am. It seems like every time I listen to Chris Tomlin's "Amazing Grace (My Chains are Gone)" I cry. I get so overwhelmed with God's forgiveness and grace for my rebellion, disobedience and down right stupidity. That song almost always bring me to tears.

But, honestly, I usually walk through my days without that feeling. Without any emotional outpouring toward God. Don't get me wrong. I do love God. That is one thing that the last 6 weeks of prayer and time with God have taught me. I do love God. But, like I've said before, I don't think it's with all my heart.

So, what about loving God with all your soul?

Soul. What does that mean? If we're separating ourselves into parts here -- is that my personality? That's not usually what we mean when we say "soul." We often say "God saves our soul." We refer to our soul going to heaven. If we are believers in Christ, saved by his grace -- is it possible for us to not love God with all our soul? Mmmm. Deep questions. Too deep for right now. This will take more study, more contemplation, more revelation from God.

Okay, what about loving God with all your mind?

Mind. Since I seem to be separating myself into parts here, I'm thinking God's talking about our priorities at this point. He's talking about how we think. Do we let God lead and control the way we think? Do we let God and His word guide the way we interpret the secular messages we receive? Do we let God determine what we do first? Do we let Him influence every decision we make? These are all a part of our mind.

For myself, again, I think the the answer is no. Too often, I take control. I forget to consult God in what I'm going to do for the day. I forget to consider His ways, His thoughts, His priorities when I'm making day-to-day decisions. It's easy to remember to ask God about the big decisions... "Should I take that job?", "Should I date/marry that man." "Should we have another baby?" "Should we buy that house?" Sure, I've consulted God on the big decisions in my life.

But, the little ones? Do I consult Him? Or do I just rely on the years of Godly teaching upbringing by pastors and teachers? Hmmm. Hadn't really thought of it in those terms before. I've been a Christian for many years. I do believe God has influenced the way I think about the activities I am involved in, the way I dress, the way I respond to minsunderstandings. I have learned to ignore or forgive minor (and some major) flaws in my family and friends.

Does this mean that I am in fact, letting God influence the way I think? Does this mean that God has influenced my priorities? Perhaps it does. If yes, then, does this mean that I love God with my mind?

Perhaps.

I am still struggling. And so, I ask... What does it mean to love God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind? What does that look like in day-to-day 2009 American life?

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Best Kitchen Tool #3

For the last two weeks I've been sharing my favorite kitchen tools. First we had the microplane. Then last week, we had the long handled kitchen tongs.

This week I have another tool that I love --this digital probe thermometer. This isn't any particular brand or recommended by any cooking gurus. But I love this thermometer. It reads instantly. You stick it in the meat and within a few seconds it tells you the internal temperature of whatever meat you're cooking.

I can use it on the grill.
I can use it on the stove.
I can use it when I'm oven roasting.
I can use it with the crockpot.
I can use it for chicken, pork, and beef.
It's wonderful.

I just pop off the cover. Stick it in the meat and wah-lah, within a few seconds I know if the meat is done or if it needs a few more minutes. I love that the cover lists the desired internal temperatures for the various meats. The button on the right also makes it switch to centigrade, if that's your preference. I just love this digital probe thermometer.

I've got one more week of sharing kitchen tools. What are your favorite kitchen tools?


This post is linked to Kitchen Tips Tuesays at Tammy's Recipes.

Monday, March 23, 2009

Goals for 3/23 - 3/28

It's time for me to set some weekly goals again. I think I need the public accountability to get myself moving in some areas. So, without further ado, here's the list for the week....

Read Phillippians 5x.
Have a Quiet Time at least 5 times. (one done already!)
Walk/Excercise 3x.
Deposit checks.
Pay bills.
Laundry - 9 loads. (already sorted; 1 load washed, not dried or folded)
Coupons - clip, sort, file.
Clean Up receipts on kitchen counter.
Go to Walgreens - do deals, use RRs.
Make 2 batches muffins
Make up Oatmeal packets for son. (7 packs)
Write 6 Thank Yous.
Ship 2 packages
Swish/Swipe Bathroom 5x
Mop Kitchen Floor (at least) 2x
Clean off computer desk.

Ugh. Looking at this list I notice a few things. 1) there's a lot on this list! 2) there's no blogging on the list. Huh. I'm sure I'll do some - I have several posts started or planned, but it'll have to be during down times, maybe after the kids are in bed & hubby's at evening meetings.

Well, time to get started.

Saturday, March 21, 2009

First Ever trip to Aldi

We went on our first ever trip to Aldi this week. I first heard about Aldi about a year ago on MoneySavingMom. Then I found ohers who were able to get a good amount of groceries at Aldi.

But the closest Aldi to us is 10 miles away, and not along our beaten path either. So, I'd never been. But this week, Hubby had to have a medical test done and it was right across the street from this Aldi. So, after he was finished we stopped in for an exploratory visit.

Here's what we got for $24.25:


Everything at Aldi is their store brand so for the most part we didn't buy much. I immediately noticed a price break on butter ($1.49/lb) and Grape Juice Concentrate ($1.24/each). Here's the price break down on what we bought:

  • Butter $1.49/lb
  • Spaghetti sauce $0.99/each
  • Frozen Juice Concentrate: $1.24/each
  • Ravioli $0.79/each
  • Canned Mushrooms $0.55/each
  • Fish Fillets $2.79/box of 10
  • Wh. Wheat Bread $1.89/loaf
  • Chocolate Chips $1.49/16 oz
  • Pancake Syrup $1.39/each
  • Frozen Peas $0.95/16 oz bag
  • English Muffins $0.99/pkg of 6

We've tried the butter, spaghetti sauce, ravioli, mushrooms, fish fillets, bread, and chocolate chips. Most of those were included in complex recipes - like chocolate chip cookies. I always doctor spaghetti sauce with added ground beef, tomato paste and added herbs and spices. Everything has tasted and cooked fine. We haven't found anything we didn't like.

Because it's so far, and doesn't take coupons I doubt I'll make a weekly trip to Aldi. However, there are some staples, like butter, that are cheaper than what I can get with coupons. So I'm planning to make a once/month trip to Aldi for staples.

How far would you drive to get to Aldi?

Friday, March 20, 2009

Welcome, Ultimate Blog Partiers

Ultimate Blog Party 2009
Hi. I'm Sharon.

I'm an Unfinished Mom.

Why unfinished? Because it seems like nothing in my home is ever finished.
The dishes.
The bill paying.
The laundry.

The decluttering.
The reorganizing.
The repairing.
The cooking.
The decorating.
The budgeting.
The grocery shopping.

The coupon clipping.

I've got tons of goals to accomplish and never enough time/energy/space and motivation all at the same time to get them done. It can be frustrating at times.

I'm also unfinished because, well it may sound cliche, but God's not finished with me. I am a believer and follower of Jesus Christ. And I am a work-in-progress. God has a great future planned for me. He said so in the Bible - Jeremiah 29:11. And, He promised in Philippians 1:6 that he would continue to work on me. Right now that's what I'm counting on. Because, frankly I certainly haven't got this whole mom thing figured out.

In fact, I don't think I've got much of anything really figured out. It's all a work in progress. I'm still learning. And, that's what I blog about. I blog about this journey. The journey to being a better Mom. A better cook. A better housekeeper. A better economist. A better Christian.




Please, come in. Look around. Have a cookie. Make yourself at home.



As you mosey around, you may run into my two great kids; a boy age 7 and a girl age 5. He's into SuperHeroes, Pokemon, and is desperate for us to let him spend his itty bitty savings on a Bakugan! She's seriously into princesses, especially Cinderella, and recently discovered Fancy Nancy. They keep me busy.

I also have a fantastic husband. He is incredibly patient. He puts up with a lot of unfinished stuff. And he's really good at encouraging me. God really knew what I needed. I am humbled and grateful.

As you roam around I hope you'll find a lot of hospitality and a bit of encouragement along the way because, hey, we all need a little encouragement. And after all, aren't we all a bit unfinished?

For my part, This is my first time hopping the party, but here are few gems I've found along the way (I'll add to the list as the week continues).
BookClub4Boys
SimplyatHome - another Maryland blogger!

Just in case you haven't heard, there are lots of prizes to win at the party. My personal top three would be:
#58 The Kitchen Aid Artisan Stand Mixer
#68 $30 Gift Card to Christian Book Distributors
#123 $20 Gift Card to Kohl's

Small Batch Yogurt - Half Stovetop & Half Crockpot

I was introduced to homemade yogurt a few years ago at a friend's house. We were there for dinner and she had made yogurt parfaits for dessert - with yogurt she'd made herself! Wow. I was amazed and intrigued, asked for the recipe (she used the one in More for Less), and in typical Unfinished Mom mode I never did anything with it. I stuck it in my recipe file and it just sat there...

...until a few months ago when I came across this post at Crockpot365. This method of making yogurt was much more my speed. Fewer ingredients, fewer steps. Easier. We eat a lot of yogurt at our house. If there was a less expensive way to get it, I was interested.

So I tried it. Success? Not so much. Too soupy and too many lumps for my kids. I ended up tossing it down the drain. (Ugh. Frugal Flop!)

So, I searched for other yogurt making ideas. I found several. But, I needed information. I needed to understand the science behind the recipes. Why did other people have success? Why was my yogurt soupy? What could I do about it? I finally found this site. It explained what was happening with the yogurt and milk and helped me come up with my own, similar, method. So, I tried several more times. And, now -- Success!

But, I had another problem. Too much yogurt. I decided that a half gallon of yogurt was too much for my family. We weren't eating it all before I got antsy about whether it was still good or not.

So, I came up with the following method. It's makes a smaller batch and works very well for my family.

Small Batch Homemade Yogurt



Ingredients
:*
1 Quart whole milk
1/4 Cup powdered milk** (see my note below)
1/4 Cup plain yogurt (full-fat) (Updated 4/3- I've now tried it with fat-free yogurt - it worked great!)

Equipment Needed:
medium sauce pan
wooden spoon
candy thermometer
medium size mixing bowl (not shown)
Crock-pot
large thick towel (like a beach towel; also not shown)


Directions:
1. Pour milk into medium pot over medium heat.

2. Stir in powdered milk; raise heat on stove to medium-high.
3. Heat milk to 190°; stirring often and checking temperature often. This will take about 10 minutes.
4. While milk is heating - 1) plug in Crockpot; set on low; 2) Fill sink about 1-2 inches with cold water; place about 3 cups of ice in a bowl.

5. When milk reaches 190°: remove pan from heat. Pour ice into sink of cold water. Then, pour heated milk into medium-size mixing bowl.***
6. Cool milk to 110°: place mixing bowl into sink of cold water, stir milk occasionally, check temperature often. This will take much less time than the heating ~4-6 minutes.
7. When milk reaches 110°, remove bowl from sink. Pour milk into Crockpot.

8. Pour yogurt into Crockpot and stir.
9. Turn off and unplug Crockpot.
10. Wrap Crockpot in large, thick towel.


11. Do not disturb for 8 hours.
12 After 8 hours, yogurt should be thickened and ready to store.
13. Store yogurt in containers in refrigerator. It will thicken a bit more in the fridge.

Yields: 2 pints plain yogurt (my apologies, I've lost this picture somehow)

To serve: eat fresh from the fridge, mix with your preferred fruit, or a few drops of vanilla. My kids prefer a tsp of splenda or sugar stirred in also.

Notes:
* Amounts for ingredients can be doubled to 1/2 gallon milk, 1/2 cup powdered milk and 1/2 cup yogurt.
** Since powdered milk is rather granular I have found it helpful to run it through my food processor for several seconds for a finer texture. This makes for fewer "chunks" - which my children do not like.
*** It is not mandatory to pour the milk into a second bowl for cooling. I do this because putting a hot pot in cold water will warp the bottom and I don't wish to warp my pots.

Here's how the prices break down for 1/2 gallon:
$0.60 1/2 cup yogurt
$1.49 1/2 gallon whole milk
$0.27 1/2 cup powdered milk =
$2.36 for 1/2 gallon of yogurt = ~$0.22/6 ounces; Cheaper than any sale I've seen.

If you've never tried making yogurt - give it a try. You'll be surprised at how easy it is. I certainly was!

For more great frugal ideas, visit LifeAsMom.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Rita's: Free Italian Ice on Friday, March 20


I was just reminded that tomorrow is an important day in the life of Rita's lovers. It's Free Italian Ice Day! We discovered Rita's while at your previous house. There was one right around the corner, and we used it often as a date night. For those who are new to Rita's, it is the nation’s largest Italian Ice chain. They will hold their 17th annual First Day of Spring Italian Ice giveaway. Stop by any of the 500 stores located in 17 different states between noon and 10 p.m. on Friday, March 20, 2009 to receive a free 10-oz. cup of Italian Ice.

Find a location near you here. Thanks, Crystal!

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Save on Groceries! 17 eBooks for $17.00

Financially Pinched?

Help is on the way. The girls from MoneySavingMom and LivingOnADime have teamed up for a special e-book offer. From now through midnight March 23 you can get this great selection of e-books for a really low price.

A little over a year ago, I started using many of these same principals to help me save money on my grocery shopping. I've gone from regularly spending $120+/week to feed my family of 4 to spending under $80/week. You really can save money on groceries. You'll be surprised how a bit of knowledge and a little effort can save you money.

You can get your grocery spending under control with the Savin' O The Green e-book special, a set of 17 e-books to help you save at the grocery store and make your life easier! Along with six easy audio lessons, these e-books show you how to save money in the kitchen, save with or without using coupons, put together delicious and easy dinners and much more!

The e-books that are included in this offer are:

Supermarket Savings 101 eCourse with audio downloads (This one is hugely popular and helpful!)
470 Crockpot Recipes
Grocery Shopping On a Budget eCourse
Money Saving Meats e-book
Saving On Cleaning Supplies e-book
Eating Healthy On A Budget e-booklet
Is Eating Out Eating You Up? e-book
224 Meals In A Hurry e-book
Grocery Savings e-book
Menus That Make Cents e-book
Plan Ahead Leftovers e-book
Quick Dinners e-book
Menu Planning Made Easy
Simply Centsible Breakfasts
Simply Centsible Suppers
Kids Recipes
Menus On A Dime

This offer includes a special deeply discounted price only good until midnight March 23, so go get it now! Learn more at Savin' O' The Green. There are more detailed descriptions of each e-book when you click on the link above.



(In the interest of full disclosure: If you purchase this set of e-books through the link above, I will receive a small commission).


A Half Day Together

My daughter is off from school today.

Don't ask me why.

It's the middle of March -- prime teaching time; but she's off from school because it's a half day and PreKindergarten doesn't meet on half days. So, what to do with this extra time? Normally, I spend Wednesday morning scouring the new grocery ads, doing a little cooking/cleaning catch up and of course, linking up and checking out WorksForMeWednesday.

But today, that routine went out the window as my daughter was home from school, and wasn't about to give me 3 hours of uninterrupted time. So, what to do?

My daughter loves to cook with me. This is something that truly blesses my heart because, well, I love to cook too. My son likes to help cook occasionally, when the rare mood strikes. But, my daughter? It's an almost every day occurance: "Mommy, can I help you cook?"


So today we made cookies.

We measured. We mixed. We stirred. We scooped. We even baked a few.

We made a mess. It was wonderful.


We loaded up three cookie sheets and froze them to be baked at a later time.


And then, when the son got home (early because of the half day), we had a "tea" party.

It was a wonderful day enjoying time together.

Cooking with my girl definitely works for me.

PS: Here's the recipe.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Best Kitchen Tool #2

Last week, I introduced you to one of my favorite kitchen tools, the microplane.

This week I have another tool that I just love. It is this pair of kitchen tongs. I think this pair of tongs, shown in the picture, is by Oxo Good Grips. I've had them for several years and I can't remember exactly where they came from. It is not the pair of Oxo tongs sold on Amazon or on the Oxo website.

I use this pair of tongs for lots of things:
  • sicking up hot chicken to turn
  • serving spaghetti noodles
  • picking up hot porkchops.
  • serving any pasta
  • picking up hot steaks
  • picking up hot, almost, anything

I use them on the stovetop. I use them on the grill. I love the way they grip without crushing the food. I love the non-slip handle. I love that they're long enough to turn hot food without burning my hands. I love that they goes in the dishwasher. I REALLY love that I can open or close them with only one hand.

See that thingy on the end (where the arrow is pointing)? That is the magic of this pair of tongs. Turn them down, that thing falls in and the tongs open. Turn them up, that thing pops out and the tongs stay closed. If my other hand is holding something, which happens frequently, I don't have to set one thing down in order to open the tongs. They're wonderful. I do not know why Oxo changed the design. I really think that was a mistake. The ones they sell now require a second hand to pull or push the nob on the end in order to open or close them. It really stinks. I was given a pair like that. I sold them at a yard sale.

Kitchen tools can be very personal. What do you look for in a pair of tongs?

This post is linked to Kitchen Tip Tuesdays at Tammy's Recipes and to Things I Love Thursday at TheDiaperDiaries.

Monday, March 16, 2009

"Best" Chocolate Chip Cookies

This is the recipe for the cookies my daughter and I made here. They're really wonderful cookies (though they don't look as good in this picture as they taste - I'll explain later.) I don't remember where I got this recipe. I think it was from Jan at a PW site I sometimes visit.

"Best" Chocolate Chip Cookies




Ingredients:
  • 3 Cups flour
  • 2 tsp baking soda
  • 1 1/2 tsp salt
  • 1 Cup butter or margarine, softened
  • 1/2 Cup shortening
  • 1 1/3 Cup packed brown sugar
  • 4 eggs
  • 1 T vanilla
  • 1 tsp lemon juice
  • 1/2 Cup rolled oats
  • 24 oz semi-sweet chocolate chips
  • 2 Cup chopped nuts (optional)

Directions:
  1. In medium bowl, stir together, flour, baking soda, salt, cinnamon.
  2. Cream together butter, shortening and sugars until light and fluffy.
  3. Add eggs one at a time, beating in between each addition.
  4. Beat in vanilla and lemon juice.
  5. Gradually add dry ingredients to butter mixture, blending thoroughly.
  6. Stir in oats. Blend well.
  7. Add chocolate chips and (optional) nuts.
  8. Use 1/4 Cup of dough per cookie.*
  9. Drop onto greased cookie sheet about 3 inches apart and bake at 325° for 17-19 minutes or until brown around edges.
Yields: 3 dozen extra huge cookies

Notes:
* The recipe calls for making them huge. I make them large, but not 1/4 Cup. I use the large cookie scoop from Pampered Chef (sorry, I don't know what the size is.) For me it makes about 6 dozen cookies and I only cook them about 12 minutes. This dough freezes very well, which is what I usually do.

In the picture above I had one of my typical cookie problems -- either I didn't let the butter soften enough or I over creamed. So, the cookies came out kind of flat. Some people really like them this way. Me, not so much. But, they still taste wonderful and my family devours them.

The person who gave me the recipe commented that she sometimes cuts down on the butter and chocolate chips.

The recipe called them the "Best" chocolate chip cookies, not me. Personally, I think they're really good chocolate chip cookies, but I wouldn't call them the "Best". Just my humble opinion.

Friday, March 13, 2009

FREE CEREAL !!!


Yes! There is a coupon in today's (3/13/09) Baltimore Sun for FREE CEREAL at Shoppers good from Thurs 3/12 - Sunday 3/15.

The coupon is on page - News 7. You must get it from the Baltimore Sun; you cannot get it in the store.

Here are the details: Limited to one box free per coupon and one coupon per customer and is good up to $4.00. You must make a $10.00 purchase and use the coupon to get the cereal.

There are tons of good sales at Shoppers right now, including Triple coupons to $0.50 and Double coupons to $1.00. Shoppers also has the cheapest eggs and milk in my neighborhood.

This is a great deal - tell EVERYONE!

For more frugal tips visit LifeAsMom.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

It's Okay to be Messy! Really. It Is!


I recently received my free copy of Cookie magazine. It's a magazine for moms. To be honest, I don't really like this magazine -- too shallow and focused on materialism than I prefer. But, it was free, and I didn't know that it would be so shallow when I requested it!

However, occasionally I see an article that catches my eye. This time it was "What Not to Worry About" That in itself caught my eye, because of course, like every other mother I know I worry about nearly every decision I make regarding my children. So, I'm skimming along thinking there's nothing new here, when I came across this subtitle: My messy house is bad for my children -- as in I don't need to worry about my messy house being bad for my kids. Really? This doesn't sound right. Hmmm. Maybe I'd better read more.

So, here's the section (quoted directly) that caught my eye:

A person is never the same once she has a child -- and neither is a home. Scattered toys, sticky spills, petrified Silly Putty ground into the pile rug. God knows how many different kinds of germs -- the detritus of child-rearing can overpower even the most conscientious housekeeper. But instead of worrying about the clutter, chaos, and -- if you live in my house -- dirt, sand, rocks, and sticks, put your feet up on the table (if there's room) and revel in this fact: Mess can actually be good for kids. "An important reason to have a messier home is just plain physical health," says David H. Freedman, coauthor of A Perfect Mess (Back Bay Books). "It's counterintuitive, but the more we know about asthma, germs, and the immune system, the more we understand that part of being safe is being exposed to germs and building up a tolerance to them at a young age."

Then there are the potential cognitive benefits of a disorderly house. When you work or play in a messy space, you get to "see a lot of things in one place, which can bring about random stimulation," says Freedman. "That's a big part of creativity." For example, let's say you have a rule that your child must put away a toy before he can pull out another. If he is playing with blocks and makes a tower, he has to put the blocks away before he drags out the dolls. A kid who is allowed to be messy, on the other hand, will be able to make a building and then pretend the dolls work there. "Children and adults have more ideas when they have a lot of things in front of them," says Freedman. "They are less restricted."

Wow! Who knew? All those times I was too lazy to make the kids clean up one toy before they got out another - I wasn't being lazy; I was letting them be creative! Ha! I think I like this guy. Seriously, he's probably talking about a healthy balance here. I know there's a point at which the messiness gets to be detrimental to both physical health and cognitive development. After all, if you're constantly messy, how do the kids ever learn organization skills. And those are really important skills to have in order to be successful as an adult. Not every organization system works for every person, but there's some kind of organizational system out there for everyone. You just have to find it.

So, now I'm curious. On the spectrum of messiness to orderliness I'm somewhere in the middle. Most of the time I lean to the messy side; more than I really think I should. I seem to constantly be in a state of trying to find an organization system or routine to help me with this perpetual problem. Where do all you other moms out there stand on the spectrum of messines to orderliness?

So, a little messiness works for me. What works for you?


(And just in case you were wondering.... Yes, that's my living room floor in the picture at the top).

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Best Kitchen Tool

I confess I am a bit of a kitchen gadget collector. For several years, if Pampered Chef came out with a new tool, I wanted it - even before I had a kitchen of my own, I would buy some of these great kitchen gadgets they have. It really got bad for a while. My husband would groan whenever I was invited to another Pampered Chef party.

I've kinda gotten over my kitchen gadget obsession; partly because I've gathered so many tools and partly because I've finally figured out which ones I really need, which ones will do multiple jobs, and which ones just make one more dish to wash instead of actually being helpful. And in fact now, most of my kitchen gadgets are not Pampered Chef tools!

The microplane is one of my favorite kitchen tools.

This gadget is most definitely one of my very favorites. It helps me with so many small quick jobs, and yet it also handles several large jobs very well also. I'll admit I don't use it every day, but I do use it at least once/week, sometimes more often. I use this baby for:
  • adding a bit of cheese to my daughter's tomato soup.
  • grating fresh ginger and garlic for my stir fry.
  • grating carrots for salad.
  • grating parmesan or mozzerella into spaghetti sauce.
  • grating chocolate to garnish a dessert.
  • zesting a lemon, lime or orange.
  • grating a 1/2 cup of fresh ginger for Indonesian Ginger Chicken (recipe posted soon).
  • and more.
  • and even more.
I love the way it grates so easily. I love that I can easily scoop off whatever is sticking to the underside. I love that it goes in the dishwasher. This tool just helps me get the job done faster and better in so many ways. It really is fantastic. I think every home cook should have one.

I have a few other favorite kitchen gadgets which I will share over the next several weeks. I'm curious. What are your favorite kitchen gadgets?

For more great kitchen tips visit Amy's Finer Things and go visit DiaperDiaries for more things other people love.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

$1.00/1 Mash's Corned Beef Brisket



Just in time for your St. Patrick's Day celebration -- today's (3/08/09) Baltimore Sun has a $1.00/1 Mash's Corned Beef Brisket coupon. It's printed in the bottom left corner of page 10 in the News section. There is bound to be a good sale this week at some local grocery chains where this can be matched. (My apologies that the only picture I could find was of a ham, not of a corned beef brisket.)

For those who are unfamiliar with this brand, Mash's is (or used to be ) a local company that is now distributed by Gwaltney of Smithfield. I have always been pleased with any of their products I've used.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Shake 'N Bake Chicken Nuggets - from scratch!

Today I'm posting my recipe for a homemade "Shake 'N Bake" chicken coating. It was inspired by a recipe found in "The Tightwad Gazette" but, I have changed it sufficiently, that I feel I can claim it as my own.

Shake 'N Bake Chicken Nuggets


 Ingredients:
  • 1 cup homemade bread crumbs
  • 1/2 cup unbleached flour
  • 1/2 cup whole wheat flour
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 T paprika
  • 1/2 tsp garlic powder
  • 1/2 tsp onion powder
  • 2 T vegetable oil
Directions:
  1. Mix all ingredients well.
  2. Store indefinitely in a covered container in the refrigerator.
  3. Cut boneless, skinless chicken breasts into bite size pieces.
  4. Put about 1/2 cup of coating mixture into ziploc bag.
  5. Add 5-6 pieces of chicken and shake to coat. Place coated pieces on baking sheet.
  6. Repeat step 5 until all chicken pieces are covered, adding more coating as needed.
  7. Bake at 400 degrees for approx 15 minutes.
  8. Serve warm with your favorite dipping sauce.
Notes:
My kids love this recipe. It is our family's favorite for chicken nuggets. I've never used this for coating whole pieces of chicken, but I believe it would work the same as Shake 'N Bake.

For more Kitchen Tips go to Tammy's Recipes. And for more great recipes visit Tempt My Tummy.

This recipe was originally published on my old blog, September 16, 2008.

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Loving God

A few weeks ago I posted my confession, that I do not love God (that post has since been removed for privacy reasons). I did not publicize that post. In fact I published it on a Sunday when I thought fewer people would be likely to read it! I was much too nervous about how people would respond. I did tell my husband. And through the network of blogs several others have discovered that post. I am amazed at how encouraging folks have been. It's very comforting.

In late January I had received some information from Moms In Touch. I still haven't read all the information they sent me; but there were two pieces that impacted me tremendously. One was a prayer guide for our children. It uses several scripture verses to guide the way we pray for our children. The other was a booklet by Fern Nichols. The biggest impact for me was her personal testimony. She talked about how she began to pray that God would make her into a woman of prayer, and that she would learn to pray through the Scriptures. She made a list of what she asked God to do in her life. And she prayed. She prayed for these same things many times.

That really clicked with me. It inspired me. It made me want what she had. I think it was also part of what made me realize that I don't love God, not as I should. Not as He wants me to. I determined that at the very least, even if I didn't love God, I could at least pray for love. And so I posted my confession. And with that post, I prayed that God would make me a woman who loves him with all my heart, all my soul, and all my strength. Despite my misgivings about the whole blogosphere knowing my confession, I was quite earnest in my prayer.

Shortly after that post I determined that I would spend time with God on a regular basis. I decided that I would spend the hour after my daughter leaves for school (9:30-10:30) in reading my Bible and in prayer. I can say that I've made a little progress. Since the time of that post I have had a good quiet time of reading my Bible and praying at least 2-3 times per week. That isn't where I think it should be, but it is progress. And, I've made my own list.

Each time I sit down, to pray, I pray:
  • that I will love God with all my heart, and with all my soul, and with all my mind.
  • that I will love my neighbor as myself.
  • that I will become a woman of prayer
  • that God will remove obstacles to me loving Him and praying daily/constantly
  • that I will learn to pray through Scripture
  • that I will communicate to others what God teaches me.
I am warily pleased with where things are. I have meditated often on what it means; what does it look like to love God with all your heart, and all your soul, and all your mind? I am still exploring. I am still searching for answers. There will be more to this journey. I am hopeful and I am grateful for the discoveries I have made and the encouragement I have received.

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